lengskididoodles

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2011-01-11T21:02:00.000+08:00

I'm back!

2011-01-07T13:50:00.000+08:00

Been forever in slumber. Will revive this blog. Now that I have lots of time to do everything. Photography, illustration, cooking....

And moreeeeeee time as a mother and wife.

Weeee! Congratulations to the new me!

^____^

Keys Cantonese Roast

2010-06-09T19:02:00.003+08:00

Served fast: Authentic Cantonese Roastings at SM Mall of Asia Food Court

Roast lechon Macau that is very crisp and so tasty, roast duck, roast pork asado, spiced chicken sliced and served in rice toppings and dim sum served hot and freshly cooked! These are just the very new offerings of SM Mall of Asia Food Court that is known for giving consumers a variety of choices, always satisfying the discriminating palate of the Filipinos.

With the opening of the trendy Keys Cantonese Roasts at the food court, second level, SM MOA snatched another milestone by having the first fast-food Cantonese roastings at affordable prices. Keys is most proud of its roast meats cooked the authentic way using the traditional “rocket” oven and charcoal heat. Best-seller is the spicy flavorful roasted lechon Macau, which has been selling like hotcakes since the last holidays. Lechon Macau has been a favorite because of its crispiness and scrumptious spicy taste.

Appetizing dim sum dishes, another Keys’ pride, peddled at the dining area at scheduled hours even give guests some pampering while enjoying their meals. Keys’ yummy dim sum comes in pork, chicken, and seafood varieties. Dim sum is a must try – the only way of knowing why it is so good and better than the others.

Keys’ owners, Ruel and Chito self-confessed Chinese food lovers, attest to the Filipinos' love for roast duck as sales of this “royalty food” surged in December. One of Keys unique feature is consumers don't have to buy the whole roast duck which in most restaurants can get quite expensive. With several slices served on rice toppings, you can taste this must-have and must-taste food of the affluent in China. To maintain quality and authentic taste of Cantonese food, Keys never use extenders. And because the food in the menu has been selling well, there really is no need to prolong their shelf life.

Lechon Macau, roast pork asado, and Chinese 5-spiced chicken, are also offered in Keys rice toppings and combo meals. Rice toppings start from P65 with your choice of dim sum; and for only P139 for single dish to P159 for two dishes with yang chow fried rice and side servings of pansit Canton and soup, customers can already enjoy an authentic Cantonese food. Keys chefs are also sharing their expertise in serving other delicious regional Chinese dishes for more delectable food choices.

There really is no reason for customers not to enjoy real Cantonese food at very affordable prices. Head off to Keys now and feel like a royalty in high Chinese cuisine with your roast duck, lechon Macau, roast pork asado and dim sum. You won’t feel the guilt enjoying the good eats, most of the meats are roasted not fried; there is no added MSG too in all the dishes.

Back to School, bact to safety

2010-06-09T10:55:00.005+08:00

By JP Tuason

Illustrations by Lengskididoodles

With Millions of kids going back to school in the next couple of weeks, one of the important topics to discuss is how to ensure that they will be safe on the roads in and around school. As a parent who is involved in teaching Road safety I have seen many accidents in my lifetime that I wish my kids to avoid. I constantly remind them of the Do’s and Don’ts as often as I can, but still have nightmares about road accidents. I think that this is a problem that I share with most parents because of the lack of emphasis in proper road safety education in the schools.

Here are a few simple tips I have taught my children and the kids that have attended our young road users seminar on Road Safety. I believe that parents going over these tips with your children will make you sleep better at night and give your kids a better understanding of the dangers on the Roads:

Crossing the street.

As much as inviting it can be, roads are built for cars and not a kids playground. If they are to cross the street they should look for the nearest stoplight. The stoplight tells cars when to Go (Green light) and when to Stop (Red light). Most kids understand the concept of the lights but they don’t understand why they need to use the crosswalk. The stoplight is located communicates to cars when it is time for people to cross the streets. It is like the video game frogger. If you cross the street when the cars are moving then you run a big chance of going SPLAT! If you cross the street when the cars are given a red light and have stopped then you win the game of crossing the street safely. Trust me a five year old understands video games.

Only very limited intersections in the country have the crosswalk lights therefore understanding the concept of stoplights and crossing the street is very important to understand at a young age. Teach your kids to look for assistance. In the absence of a stoplight kids should look for traffic police, older children or an adult not only because of the possible danger but also because of their height. A small child is harder to see from the point of view of a bus driver.

A final tip on crossing the street is the left – right –left system. Before crossing teach your kids to pause and look left for on coming traffic, look right to ensure the other direction is clear as well as back left before taking the first step. Practicing this makes kids conscious of on coming vehicles of different speeds and sizes.

Use your seatbelt.

Everyone in the vehicle needs to be belted properly in the car. I always say that the number of seatbelts dictate how many people can ride in the car. Never have kids sit on your lap unbelted – they will be the first ones to fly out the windshield.

Never have kids sit on your lap and run a seatbelt across the 2 of you – In an accident your weight exponentially increases and you will crush your child with the seatbelt. Never have kids 12 and below sit in the front seat – This is because the 3 point seatbelts are designed for adults – Kids run the risk of hitting the windshield, getting neck injuries or getting hurt by the airbag as it deploys.

As a guideline:

· Newborns till 2 years old should be placed in a infant carrier / back facing child seat. – This device is belted down in the center of the rear seat and is to protect the fragile neck and back from injury in a car accident.

· Kids ages 2-5 years old should be in a forward facing child seat. – This device is also belted in the center of the rear seat and has its own mini 4 point seatbelt to hold the child down by spreading the forces across the shoulders and pelvis.

· Kids 5-12 years should use a booster seat. – A booster seat raises a child up so that when they use a regular 3 point car seatbelt, it does not strangle them or run across the colar bone (which is very easy to break).

A lot of people say that car seats and seatbelts are not necessary because we are always stuck in traffic or the cars are moving to slow. Most people don’t realize that a simple 10kph impact can send someone unbelted into the windshield.

Even more people say that car seats are expensive and will only be used for a short period of time. I disagree. Child seats now can go for as little as a full tank of gas. When you compare that to the money you would spend on a possible hospital bill…then the investment is worth the money!

Wear your Helmet.

One of the greatest joys a parent can have is the day you teach your kids to use a bike. After teaching them to walk and talk…I think this is one of the next big milestones.

As a parent who understands the dangers of motor racing, I tell people who buy helmets, that you can skimp on spending a lot of money on other equipment but protecting your head is something that should not be ignored. Remember it’s your or your kids head.

People that use 2 wheeled vehicles whether bikes or motorcycles must understand the dangers of being exposed on the road, a simple fall on the road can be fatal if it is head first and trust me it happens all the time.

Remember a few seconds of prevention can save you a lifetime of sacrifice…so be safe this coming school year and do your part in educating your kids in Road Safety.

The author is a multi-awarded race car driver, founder of Tuason Racing School and a road safety advocate, he travels around the country to train and impart the message of road safety. He also has undergone different Road Safety trainings in US and in Europe and is a member of different safety organizations around the globe. For more information about Tuason Racing School’s Racing or Road Safety Programs email info@tuasonracing.com or check out our website at www.tuasonracing.com. Send your questions as well to be tackled in future articles.

Published in Motoring Section Philippine Daily Inquirer

June 9, 2010 - page B2-1 and B2-4

Am i really happy?

2009-08-25T22:26:00.002+08:00

i don't know. i'm not sure...

am i?

i am not.

My bebi's caricature for our friend

2009-05-19T18:18:00.002+08:00

special gift for the special couple... hope nagustuhan nila.

kamukha nga nila! heheheh

edward cullen

2008-11-20T09:59:00.010+08:00

Do you guys remember "Albert Mondego"?

He's Edmond Dantes' son in The Count of Monte Cristo (2002) movie staring Jim Caviesel (as Edmond)

Albert was played by Henry Cavill.

For me, the better actor to play "Edward Cullen" of "Twilight" than Robert Pattinson (dont get angry with me fans ^_^)

Well, I'm sure Stephenie Meyer (Twilight author) will agree. Afterall, Henry was her first choice too (according to internet sources).

(Though I still see Chace Crawford's face whenever I read the book.... shhhhhh....)

^_^

But I will still watch it, don't worry. LA and I already have a date. ^_^

yuri's diary 2

2008-10-28T09:58:00.004+08:00

THe yUri mYStery FiLE 01

wall.e

2008-09-17T15:01:00.004+08:00

And yet pixar did it again.

The teaser trailer didn't spoil any hint. I was expecting a robot accidentally brought to this "high tech" world and made everyone realize that "model" doesnt matter. But it was far beyond what I imagined the story would be, and incredibly surpasses my expectations. And it made me applause and feel good after seeing the movie ends.

A highly recommended film.

Two thumbs up for a job well done.

during rajored gala

2008-09-10T20:14:00.006+08:00

waa.. nag attend din ako. heheheh. and i'm glad.. ^_^

i wore nga pala a dress like this. thanks to tintin.

this photo was shot by rhett eala. i'm with mam tss. hmmm.. nice smile eh?? ^_^

btw, we're having chocolate phalenopsis with stewed spiced cherries for dessert.. yummy!

romeo x juliet

2008-09-10T14:22:00.003+08:00

makes me wanna cry always, especially hearing "inori" (you raise me up soundtrack sung by lena park)

its like an anime rpg, set in shakespearean time, the mystery of love within the world of final fantasy. timeless classic. one of the best anime series of 2008. the background is really really well rendered, the story is amazing, the soundtrack will touch you.

still, a best adaptation of a shakesperean classic.

plot:

In the fantastical aeropolis of Neo Verona, the noble house of Capulet had ruled peacefully for generations - until fourteen years ago, when the ancient grudge held by the rival house of Montague led to a mutiny, and the Capulets were disposed and all wiped out in a bloody coup. Now, as Neo Verona suffers under the thrall of its new masters, the fates of two star crossed lovers are about to become tragically entwined... As the citizens of the city suffer, the Capulet clan struggles to strike a blow against their enemies, and the Montagues tighten their grasp on power, an unlikely love blossoms between Romeo and Juliet - but in the face of such adversity, this ill-fated love may be doomed from the outset. Triumph or tragedy; only fate knows what awaits Romeo and Juliet. source: wikipedia

lengski fashionista?

2008-09-09T16:35:00.006+08:00

never in my crazy mind occured that i will be part of this "world" that i can only achieve through bizzare imagination.

yep.. im in the "fashion world". not that im a model or a designer or something.. but i just happened to work with people in that world.

first, im not a fashionista. i only feel comfortable wearing baggy pants, hanes white shirt, gshock watch, chucks, dog tags and thumb ring.

not couture, cocktail dress, 5 inches stilletos, l'oreal make up and well "ironed" hair.

im a girl who grew up wearing her elder brother's shorts, his tatay's tshirt and uncle's cap. i'm not gay, that i clarify, only that im more comfortable wearing "sporty" outfit and flat sneakers. maybe cause i dont have a sister with whom i can borrow "saya" and "dresses". plus my nanay usually wears shirts too cause its what's best to wear when you're working in a bakery and got icings all over you.

anyway, im enjoying this new get up adventure actually. but honestly, i still have to lose some more weight. hey! i already have huh? but i need more. and i'm getting there. just a few more pounds. harharhar!!!!

so, am i attending tonight's gala (rajo red / rajo laurel's show in makati shang)??

i still have to think. not that i have nothing to wear.. tintin already lend me this beautiful dress..

just that, i had a little accident last sunday. "nadulas ako sa banyo". and i have a scar and bruise on my knee, my back is aching and got bruises too there. my head's not that stable yet. and worst, i cant wear stilletos all night..

sayang... ^_^

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illustrations by Rina Albert and Steph Bravo ^_^

Movies of 2009-2012

2008-09-08T19:40:00.001+08:00

Anacondas 3 & 4
Alone in the Dark 2
Punisher : Warzone
Butterfly Effect : Revelation
School of Rock 2
Alice in Wonderland
Kane & Lynch
The Descent 2
The First Avenger : Captain America
Sherlock Holmes (Robert Downey Jr.)
Resident Evil 4
Justice League Mortal
Avatar
The Fantastic Mr. Fox
A Christmas Carol (Jim Carrey)
G.I. Joe : Rise of Cobra
Land of the Lost
The A Team
Transformers : Revenge of the Fallen
Star Trek
The Pink Panther 2
Turok
Totally Spies the Movie
Scorpion King : Rise of a Warrior
Bioshock
Brazilian Job
Spiderman 4
Jurassic Park 4
Terminator Salvation
Transporter 3
The Departed 2 (how??)
I am Legend 2
I Robot 2
Shrek the Fourth
Toy Story 3
Zorro 2110
Beverly Hills Cop 4
Sin City 2 & 3
Crank 2 : High Voltage
The Hobbit
He-Man and the Masters of Universe
Justice League
Johnny Quest
Re-Boot
Superman : Man of Steel

REMAKE
Tron
Ronin
The Thing
The Karate Kid
Army of Darkness
The Birds
Conan the Barbarian
The Big Chill
Fahrenheit 451

GAMES
Halo
Gears of War
Zelda
Prince of Persia : Sands of Time
Metal Gear Solid
Tekken
Devil May Cry
Castlevania
Max Payne (Mark Walberg)
Silent Hill 2
Bloodrayne 3 (meron palang part 2??)
Spyro the Dragon
Spyhunter
Street Fighter (hopefully better than jean’s movie)
World of Warcraft (O_O)
The Sims (*_*)

HORROR
Nightmare on Elm Street
Friday the 13th
Hellraiser
Final Destination 4
The Grudge 3
Jeepers Creepers 3
Underworld 3
Saw 3

WITH POSSIBLE RELEASE DATES
2009
May 1 – Hannah Montana Movie
May 22 – Night at the Museum 2 : Escape from Smithzonian
June 26 – Transformers 2
July 1 – Ice Age 3 : Dawn of Dinosaurs
Summer - Superman : Man of Steel

2010
January 15 – Hoodwinked 2 : Hood vs. Evil
March 19 – Alvin and the Chipmunks 2
April 30 – Iron Man 2
May 7 – Chronicles of Narnia : The Voyage of the Dawn Treaders
November 19 – Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows (Part 1)
December – Rapunzel (pixar movie)

2011
May – Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows (part 2)

2012
December – The Hobbit Sequel
Summer – Cars 2

Komyuter

2008-09-08T16:50:00.000+08:00

Illustration for Inquirer Golf Monthly

2008-08-28T10:58:00.003+08:00

happy to see these published August issue

^_^

txting while driving

2008-08-13T15:39:00.002+08:00

Using cell phones while driving causes “inattention blindness,” whereby the driver looks directly at the road but doesn’t really see. More often, conducting a conversation via a cell phone demands greater continuous concentration that diverts the driver’s eyes from the road and his/her mind from driving. An earlier study by the same university found that motorists who talked on hands-free cell phones were 18 percent slower in braking and took 17 percent longer to regain the speed they lost when they braked.

Dark Knight 03

2008-08-06T18:50:00.000+08:00

Dark Knight 02

2008-08-06T18:45:00.001+08:00

Dark Knight 01

2008-08-05T18:45:00.003+08:00

Overtime

2008-08-05T18:43:00.003+08:00

note : mr. m is 'dreaming' of having this comicstrip published daily in a newspaper. hmmm, why not?? ^_^

foto fashionistas...

2008-08-05T09:23:00.006+08:00

From Left : Rhett Eala, Arcy Gayatin, Barba, Rajo Laurel, Lulu Tan-Gan, James Reyes, Tonichi Nocom, Ivarluski Aseron, Joey Samson, Louis Claparols, Patrice Ramos-Diaz and Randy Ortiz

We had a photoshoot on July 18 in Rizal Memorial Stadium.

Why there?

Well, Apples asked me to. The original location was in Peninsula Manila. But we had this idea of having it on a "track and field" instead. So, like a "location agent", I dialled 187 (?? pldt hotline) and asked for Rizal Memorial Stadium's number. I only have less than a week and a half to book for the best location. And it was a success. The track and field was available and managed to reserve it on the 18th.

But before photoshoot, it rained non-stop all week. Apples and the designers were so concern that the photoshoot will be impossible in an open area, so they asked me to look for other possible locations. That was Thursday, the 17th.

You guess it right. I'd called every gym, school... any location I can think of like crazy. But its too late for them to accomodate us. In the end, I just prayed for the rain to stop.

And it did! Friday was really sunny and I'm so thankful.

Then, another problem discovered when I reached the location. There's no electricity! Where in the world will the hairdressers and makeup artists do their things with the models?? Plus, the room reserved for us was too small to fit all 30 pax comfortably (12 designers, 6 models, photographers, make up crew, staff and caterer).

Apples was already calling me on my cellphone, telling me that Arcy and Rhett were already outside. The models were there too and the room wasnt ready yet! I had to look for an alternative room fast or it will be a disaster! So I ran toward the Ninoy stadium asked the guard where's the manager and went to him, negotiate to give us room, with aircon, cr and couch. I wasn't expecting it to happen, but like a miracle, he did spare me a room! And take note, he lend me their VIP room! Maybe he saw that I'm so desperate and sincere at the same time. Thanks so much to him lending us the VIP room. He's an angel!!

So there they were, sitting comfortably, chatting happily while having their make up. The caterer served the food and everyone were satisfied.

Apples called me and proudly said that it's all thanks to me, they had a great location. The lead artist of L'Oreal kept on telling her that they didn't the same "accommodation" when they did their last project there and he was really surprised on what I have provided them.

That really made me happy. Like an "apprentice" scene where made me feel I'm so ready to face Donald Trump in the boardroom.

Right now, I have all their photos in poster mounted in foam boards, signed.

Hmmmm.. where in my room will i put it?? heheheheh

^_^

Inquirer Lifestyle Fitness.Fashion

2008-07-08T21:56:00.003+08:00

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reason why i cant update nala. too busy with this current project ^^

masaya ako...

2008-06-26T10:05:00.002+08:00

bakit???

dahil masaya ang kaibigan ko. totoo.. im so happy for her!

sana mapanood na nya romeo x juliet..

lalo sya kikiligin..

heheh!

*wink wink

^_^

Underground baby....

2008-03-29T22:50:00.002+08:00

isn't he handsome??

Must Watch: I Am Legend's Original Ending

2008-03-24T17:21:00.005+08:00

oh my.. if only "i am legend" became more loyal with the concept of Richard Matheson's book, i think i will make it as my "favorite movie of the year"..

please see this site and video for you to see why.. ^_^

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Source: SlashFilm
by Alex Billington

Today I've got to break some rules. We normally never ever talk about anything related to DVD, but this time this is too amazing to pass up. And all in the same, I'm putting a theatrical spin on it, so let's just get to it. Last December when I Am Legend hit theaters, one of the biggest complains I heard was that the ending was completely changed from the book and in turn the entire "legend" concept that Richard Matheson originally wrote was never actually seen. The DVD is arriving in a few weeks and Francis Lawrence's original ending that was made is included on it. Thankfully we've grabbed the new version for you viewing pleasure below. And to say it simply - you NEED to watch this.

You've been warned - everything from this point forward contains spoilers. Proceed at your own risk!

I actually really loved I Am Legend quite a damn bit. I think I saw it around three times in theaters and loved it more each time. Up until the point where Alice Braga's character appeared, I was enjoying it so much that I was considering making a spot for it on my best of 2007 list. However, by the end, I wasn't as sure. The scene at the end where the vampire creatures break into Robert Neville's lab is intense and amazing, and I enjoyed it, but it wasn't how it should have played out. This ending below is what we should have seen.

please visit link here to see the complete article and video : http://www.firstshowing.net/2008/03/05/must-watch-i-am-legends-original-ending-this-is-amazing/

LONG TRIP 10 things you wish your driver would do

2008-03-18T00:48:00.003+08:00

By Kenneth M. del Rosario

Illustration by Lengski

The driver had just finished checking your car’s engine, tires, and brakes. Food has been packed and bag of clothes resting comfortably in the back seat. Now, you’re all set for that 18-hour drive to the wilderness. Buckle up!

But before getting to your destination, hours would be spent in the car alone with your driver. It’s a scene you don’t want to see yourself in: Trapped in the car with a snob driver who couldn’t bother to give you a cursory glance and would answer your questions with a hum.

Here’s a better alternative: Your driver checks the vehicle for you before leaving for the trip, saving both of you hassle on the road. He knows basic mechanical skills so you feel more optimistic if, by any unfortunate event, you do encounter a problem later.

While you can’t expect every driver to be the most gorgeous… err… courteous and friendly, it couldn’t hurt to list down things you wish your driver would do or would know if only to make the long trip less dragging. Here are some of them:

1. Tells great stories. This is the easiest way to pass up time in a long trip. Listen when your driver starts talking about places he had been to; where he came from; how long he had been driving. The important thing is to talk with him and get acquainted with each other, but make sure not to distract him from driving carefully.

2. Speaks local language. He doesn’t have to be fluent, but knowing the dialect of the place you want to go to would make it easier for both of you to communicate with the locals and navigate your way across town.

3. Knows people in your place of destination. Meeting locals is as equally fun and exciting as enjoying the scenery. While nothing should stop you from randomly speaking with the locals, you’ll feel much safer talking to someone your driver knows. Maybe he can even ask his friend to set up a delicious lunch buffet for both of you.

4. Knows great tourist spots for photo ops. As they say, getting there is half the fun. Doubling as a tour guide, it pays to have your driver take you to breathtaking or historical places. While you’re at it, ask your driver to take your photos if you don’t have a tripod.

5. Brings CDs, books, and a deck of cards. Thank your driver for bringing his CDs should you lose signal of your favorite radio station. Borrow his portable DVD player and watch a movie if you get bored. If you’re up to reading in a moving vehicle, make use of the books or magazines he brought along with him. He can show you a trick or two with his deck of cards when you stop by a gasoline station to refuel.

6. Accommodates changes in schedule and route. Not to mean your driver would be at your total mercy, you’d wish he’d be accommodating enough should you decide to have a small detour which could throw your schedule off balance.

7. Stays awake, takes a break. It is almost inevitable during long trips that your driver might feel a bit sleepy. If this happens, hope that your driver knows when to pull over for a nap. Sometimes, getting out of the car to stretch does the trick. You can take a nap yourself or take a walk for a while until your driver gets enough rest.

8. Admits he got lost and asks for directions. You’d wish your driver left his ego at home so he does not act like he knows everything when he doesn’t, not wanting to admit he took a wrong turn at the last exit. This is where speaking the place’s local language comes in handy. If you think you’re not on the right track, ask for directions immediately.

9. Knows shortcuts. Cutting travel time an hour or two means having more time to enjoy the place of your destination. This also saves fuel which translates to more money for food and souvenirs.

10. Keeps eyes on the road, not on his cell phone. Wherever you go, texting while driving is a big no-no. You’d want to be in one piece when you reach your destination and back. So you’d wish your driver makes his calls and sends his text messages only during restroom breaks to avoid any untoward incidents.

Should you luck into a driver who knows what he’s doing, be thankful. Still, don’t let excitement overcome you that you forget to do your part.

Be of help by bringing a map or a compass and help your driver navigate in unfamiliar terrain. Hand him snacks to give him enough energy for the long trip. If you know how to drive, switch places with your driver once in a while so he could rest his eyes.

Plan accordingly. If you’re only going to be in the car for a few hours, you probably don’t need to bring your entire catalogue of Mariah Carey CDs.

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Philippine Daily Inquirer

Road Assistance Special Feature

March 19, 2008

Page B2-1

10 cool ideas to make your Graduation Day Memorable

2008-03-18T00:36:00.006+08:00

Written By Kenneth del Rosario

Illustration by Lengski

Amidst the flurry of emotions students feel during graduation ceremonies, the event often passes by like a blur that you fail to absorb every thing that takes place around you.

But wouldn’t it be nice to remember your Graduation Day as vividly as our memories would serve us? After all, it is the single most important day that sums up the hardships you endured in school for years.

While a year book would do a great job at jogging your memory about the good old days, there are things that could make reminiscing about the big G-day more special and unforgettable.

Here are practical tips to make sure the occasion stays fresh when you walk down memory lane 20 years from now:

1. Snap outstanding photographs. - Take time to pose for the camera. Snap images with family, friends, and teachers. Do this before the program starts so you appear made and fresh in your shots. Arrive at the venue 30 minutes before the program proper and take advantage of the decorated and well-lighted stage before every one else does. You don’t want to wrestle with your fellow graduates on the way there. Besides, no one wants to hang on their walls a shot that captured hell breaking lose in the background.

2. Send graduation announcements. - Let people know you are graduating and invite them to the occasion. Many won’t make it but this will give them a chance to, hopefully, congratulate you on your achievement. You can’t expect everybody to send a graduation gift but doesn’t a good student like you deserve a card, a call, or cash as a reward?

3. Write your parents a letter. - Nothing is more overwhelming than a parent receiving a Thank You letter from his or her child. Before the Graduation Day itself, put into writing words of gratitude for your parents’ unfailing dedication and support. Ask your parents to write you a letter as well and exchange the letters during the ceremony.

4. Throw your cap. - Enough feeling like you’re Harry Potter. Be the first one to throw your cap in the air or toss it as high as you can. Don’t be afraid to lose your cap. Just pick up the first one that hits your face. Now that would be memorable.

5. Make new friends. - Talk to the person seated next to you. Start with light talk; find out what his or her plans are after college. Years later, you will be amazed when you remember it was on your Graduation Day you met your best friend. In case you are in a more reconciling mood, mend fences with classmates (or teachers) whom your relationship with had gone sour over the years. This would make you feel doubly good about yourself: All friends, no enemies.

6. Attend rehearsals and follow instructions. - Know where to walk on the way up the stage when your name is called. Looking like a lost child in front of every body is not hip. Follow dress codes and browse through the program sheet to get an idea of what is expected of you during the commencement exercises.

7. Do something crazy. - If you’re known to be the shy, timid girl in class, release all your inhibitions for 30 seconds and shout at the top of your lungs. Sing praises, dance, hug your seatmate. Bring your own confetti and shower fellow graduates with it. Sky’s the limit for this. Be creative!

8. Frame your awards. - Treat your medals and trophies to an elegant glass case. This would help preserve their glitz long enough for you to tell your grandchildren about them someday. It sure would make an excellent conversation piece in your living room. You worked hard for them, flaunt ’em!

9. Finish the ceremony. - This is your day. Realize that the occasion was meant to celebrate your achievement. Being there when the program ends is as, if not more than, important as being there before it starts. Listen to what the guest speakers have to say. Speeches are often good sources of inspiration and, at times, comedic relief. Respond to and interact with guest speakers as much as possible.

10. Make dining reservations. - Cap the night with a lovely dinner with family or friends. If you’re eating out, restaurant reservations ahead of time avoids the hassle of running out of tables when other graduates and their families swarm the place. Should you decide to celebrate at home, prepare a dish or two for your family before leaving for the occasion. This way, you’ll have food waiting for you when you get home from the event.

These tips, though common, merit repetition as they often slip people’s attention during the days leading up to G-day.

However, the underlying theme is simple: Exert effort to make your Graduation Day as lovely as possible by enjoying a hassle-free celebration.

Attend the ceremony because you want to, not because you are required to. At the end of the day when the merry-making is over, enjoy some quiet time by yourself and say your prayers. Let the day’s activities sink in.

While some people may find graduation ceremonies dragging or boring, it’s really how you pay attention to the little details that makes all the world of a difference.

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Published in Philippine Daily Inquirer
March 14, 2008
Page K1

Nala Episode 14

2008-03-06T13:25:00.002+08:00

Nala Episode 13

2008-03-03T14:25:00.003+08:00

yuri's diary

2008-02-27T00:59:00.005+08:00

here's our baby... he's been an inspiration, a bestfriend.. whom we love so much.. very very much...

Love and dating. What's love got to do with the latter?

2008-02-13T13:55:00.012+08:00

Illustrations by Lengski

In his book " I Kissed Dating Goodbye, " author Joshua Harris enumerates the seven habits of highly defective dating.

1. Dating tends to skip the friendship stage of a relationship.

2. Dating often mistakes a physical relationship for love.

3. Dating often isolates a couple from other vital relationships.

4. Dating can distract young adults from their primary responsibility of preparing for the future.

5. Dating can cause discontentment with God's gift of singleness.

6. Dating can create an artificial environment for evaluating another person's character.

7. Dating often becomes and end in itself.

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Pre-Valentine Supplement

Page G1 and G2 , February 13, 2008

Philippine Daily Inquirer

Love tips from the anti-dating guru

2008-02-12T15:33:00.000+08:00

By Raquel P. Gomez

Illustration by Lengski

Lately have you felt so bad and miserable, felt the whole world closing in on you because a relationship you so treasured ended in a bitter note? The girl or guy abandoned you for another and left you high and dry? And according to Jon von Jovi, the only way to down your pain is with a “bottle of vodka”?

These questions may sound like some lyrics from a sappy song that has been revived a hundred times over, or maybe even an opening spiel of some wannabe love doctor or relationship counselor from an AM radio come late night tuning, but practically they mostly refer to the general predicament you and I experience in the current dating scene.

People in the current dating scene whose relationships pile up one after another without getting anywhere, or who are perennially in “recreational romance” will most often find their life “empty” when they get older, according to Joshua Harris in his 1997 bestselling book “I Kissed Dating Goodbye.”

The book focuses on the author’s disenchantment with contemporary dating scene and offers ideas for improving the courtship practice. He popularized the concept of “courting” as an alternative to regular dating.

“A lot of things we do in relationships today are motivated by selfishness. We’re starting what we can’t finish, we’re pursuing romance when we’re really not interested in commitment,” says Harris in the book.

Harris adds that behaviors that cut across current generation’s pursuit of fulfillment in relationships include: seeking intimacy without obligation, seeking sex with no strings attached, and seeking the “pleasure of love with none of the work, none of the vows, and none of the sacrifice.”

“The results (of these behaviors) aren’t what we hoped for. And we’re left feeling emptier than before. The intimacy is superficial. The sex leaves us dissatisfied and hungry for something real, something true.”

According to Harris, people often pursue intimacy for the sake of intimacy. People want to get close each other without any real intention of making a long-term commitment.

“Deepening intimacy without defining a level of commitment is dangerous,” according to Harris. “It’s like going mountain climbing with a partner who isn’t sure her or she wants the responsibility of holding your rope. When you’ve climbed two thousand feet up a mountain, you don’t want to have a conversation about how he or she feels ‘tied down’ by your relationship. Many people experience deep hurt when they open themselves up emotionally and physically only to be abandoned by someone who proclaims he or she is not ready for a ‘serious commitment.’ ”

If modern day courtship that’s getting more and more influenced by advertising, movies and music leave people in love limbo rather than love paradise, what then is true joy in love and how does one goes about pursuing that goal in life?

Harris formulated what he calls the little relationship principle to counter the detrimental effects of modern day dating. And it goes like this: “The joy of intimacy is the reward of commitment.” In other words, you get to true love level and enjoy the rewards it brings if there is willingness to commit yourself to your partner.

Harris says the principle is an important aspect of true love, which marriage is based upon. In marriage a man and woman become one flesh and enjoy the deepest intimacy with each other only after they have made a public promise to love each other for life.

Harris says intimacy without commitment contradicts “true love” - which makes one selfless, patient, and always looking out for the ongoing good of the other person.

According to Harris love and faithfulness are always linked together. The personal benefits of an intimate relationship, emotional or sexual, are always closely linked to self-sacrificial love and commitment to another person’s long-term good.

If the path to true love is combining intimacy with commitment, Harris’ “golden rule of romance” or principle encourages people to not to date or seek romance yet if they are not prepared or ready to match with commitment the intimacy they’re seeking in the partner.

“The little relationship principle helps us sort through these difficult questions. We don’t ask for a level of intimacy and emotional loyalty that goes beyond our true level of commitment. If we’re not able to deepen in commitment and pursue the possibility of marriage, we should halt the progression of intimacy at the friendship stage.”

Love between a couple about to get married should be expressed in self-control, patience and even words left unsaid. If it goes beyond that, then it’s bound for trouble. “Intimacy without commitment is like icing without the cake. It can be sweet, but it ends up making us sick.”

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Bida si Mr. M ngyon!

2008-02-07T19:05:00.000+08:00

Year of the Rat Na! ^_^

nala episode 12

2008-01-28T14:58:00.001+08:00

nala episode 11

2008-01-22T14:40:00.000+08:00

nala episode 10

2008-01-16T18:34:00.001+08:00

'thinnovation' ...

2008-01-16T13:59:00.000+08:00

invades the nation. geez.. i was just thinking about my 'powerbook' as the coolest laptop of 'em all, when suddenly here comes the 'macbook'.. and then the imac... i haven't collected myself fully yet and another news came out so sudden... and the 'air' flew upon me...

here it is... MacBook Air.. the thinnest of them all. looks like steve jobs really wanted to be the world's first to always introduce new innovation. this actually left sony's oled vaio and samsung's oled technology behind (in terms of introduction). hey... i have posted about oleds here in my blog and if you got no idea what it means.. better check this out---> http://lengskididoodles.blogspot.com/2007/06/thinner-is-better.html

anyway, here's how the copy of the macbook air goes :

MacBook Air is ultrathin, ultraportable, and ultra unlike anything else. But you don't lose inches and pounds overnight. It's a result of rethinking conventions. Of multiple wireless innovations. And breakthrough design. With the MacBook Air, mobile computing has a new standard.

Hmmm.. I still have to see it first before I completely agree.. but seeing that silver colored ultrathin notebook (as thin as 1.20 inches down to 0.8 inches in a wedge shape, and runs from 0.76 inches to 0.16 inches) , packed with built-in iSight camera, a full size backlit keyboard in Black, a full size 13.3 inches LED-backlit display, a 1.8 inches hard drive with 80GB standard (option for 64GB solid-state disk), Core 2 Duo chip on board at 1.6GHz standard (option to go to 1.8 GHz), among others.....

whew!!

heard it has Bluetooth 2.1 + EDR, magsafe connector.. etc.. etc.. etc...

anyway... too good to be true? yep.. shipment will start two weeks after it was introduced by Mr. Steve Jobs and preorders are already on...

The price... a whopping $1799. not bad eh..

well.. better check this out for more details and see it yourself.. ^_^
http://www.apple.com/macbookair/

and the heavens painted Z

2008-01-12T18:51:00.000+08:00

i was just too lucky to capture this on film.. too lucky to be on the right place at exactly the right time. ^_^

this shot was taken during a hotair balloon ride somewhere in pampanga near clark field, philippines - february 12, 2005

nala episode 09

2008-01-11T17:18:00.000+08:00

legend of treasure...

2008-01-08T22:25:00.000+08:00

i'd been waiting for this... yep yep! showing na po!

I Am Legend (Will Smith) at National Treasure : Book of Secrets (Nicolas Cage).

iniisip ko nga kung alin sa dalawa ang uunahin kong panoorin. unfortunately, di ako makakasabay ngayon kasi nga, may trabaho.. OT ulet at ayaw ko din manood ng maraming kasabay. mas na enjoy ko kasi yung movie pag konti lang nanonood. parang nung pinanood ko noon yung Lord of the Rings : Fellowship of the Ring. halos one and a half month nang naipapalabas eto nung nag decide akong panoorin ng mag-isa. at sa recto ko pa eto pinanood. sa ever gotesco. hanep.. solo ko halos yung buong sinehan. parang exclusive screening for me.. heheh... kaya naman di ko talaga namalayan ang oras at pakiramdam ko, asa middle earth ako nung time na yun at kasamang nakikipaglaban nila Aragorn at Legolas sa mga orcs.. heheh. Hanggang sa pag-uwi ko nga sa boarding house para ko pa ring naririnig yung himig ni Enya na kumakanta ng May It Be... ^_^

ayun, sana bigyan ulet ako ng free tickets ng Columbia Pictures for the National Treasure movie at ng Warner Bros. para naman sa I am Legend. YM ko na kaya sila??

excited na tuloy ako...

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update! update!

nakausap ko na yung taga warner bros.. bibigyan daw nila ko ng movie tickets! yehey! salamat po! sa rockwell (poweplant) na lang daw ko manood para di masyado madami tao.. hehe.. thanks po ulet!

New Year's Challenge

2008-01-02T18:22:00.000+08:00

Bagong taon.. bagong buhay... or hindi??

I think it depends... I'm looking forward to a new opportunity right now. Actually.. this is the 4th time that I have given a 'possibility of change' regarding my career... yun nga lang.. unfortunately.. lahat nang yun 'di natuloy. Pero di pa rin ako nawawalan ng pag-asa.

The only thing that holds me back right now is leaving my comfort zone. Imagine.. ilang taon na ba ako dito? Kaya nga ako ninenerbyos eh.. heheh.

Pag nalipat na ko sa kabilang department.. feeling ko.. haharapin ko na si Donald Trump. Every task will be a challenge. Pero gusto ko yun eh. Kaya nga favorite ko yung 'The Apprentice'. Cause I love to do what those people do.. and seeing themselves outside of the boardroom with heads up cause of a successful campaign and enjoying their luxurious reward after.

Right now.. I miss those challenges. Sana nga lang, pagbigyan nila ako ngayon. Ayoko na tuluyan nang malugaw utak ko sa 'stagnation'.

Am I up to the challege? Hmmm... let's wait and see... I think I deserve that rewards too.

Waah!! na-weeweewee tuloy ako kaiisip! :D

what we want this christmas..

2007-12-18T15:35:00.000+08:00

Lengski:

1. Canon 40d

2. Sony Bravia or Samsung 42inc LCD

3. Imac G5 or super astig PC (CPU) "yung 42inch LCD ang monitor ko..heheh

4. Comfortable Sofa Bed

5. two bedroom condo unit

Nala:

1. Maging masaya lagi at safe si Lengski

2. Lagi kong makasama si Lengski
3. Magkasundo na sila Koolit at Mr. M

4. Maging vegetarian na lahat ng tao sa buong mundo.

5. Makita ko si Pulgoso sa personal.... hayyyyyy!!!

Koolit:

1. Maging pinakamagaling na fairy sa buong Lengskididoodleslandia

2. Ma-master ko na lahat ng magic spells

3. Maging super model

4. Maging hollywood actor at makasama sa pelikula si Scarlett Johanson

5. Magkaroon ng Pet cat para di na makalapit si Mr. M sa akin

Mr. M.

1. Maging susunod na 007 ..(tananan.. tananan...)

2. Pumalit kay Ryan Seacrest

3. Dagdagan ni Lengski ang role ko

4. Masilid sa kahon si Koolit

5. Magka-girlfriend na katulad ni Betty Boop

Wish naming lahat:

NALA FOREVER! sana maging sikat na comics kmi sa buong mundo!!!

at WORLD PEACE!!!

as i saw him there...

2007-11-19T13:35:00.000+08:00

i saw him.. i was there... i could barely look for i know that there's not much that i can do.. but pray that he'll finally be happy.. but i'm still thankful for he had experienced care... even if it was during the very last seconds of his life...

full story:

http://newsinfo.inquirer.net/breakingnews/metro/view_article.php?article_id=101678

Nala Episode 08

2007-11-12T19:11:00.000+08:00

Nala Episode 07

2007-11-06T17:41:00.000+08:00

abawt mi! (survey survey)

2007-10-30T23:29:00.000+08:00

*Would You Rather...((with some unusual questions..))*
Would you rather...
Be 4'1 or 7'9"?:	4'1... yoko mas maging matangkad pa sa 'bebi' kew.. ^_^
Live without music or live without T.V.?:	without music.. couch potato ako pag ala pasok eh..hehe
Eat a bar of soap or drink a bottle of dishwashing liquid?:	dishwashing liquid pra ala na nguya-nguya at ma stuck sa ngipin
Be called a racist or a traitor to your country?:	traitor na lang.. ayoko matawag akong racist.. unfair masyado sa iba
Lose your legs or lose your arms?:	legs na lang.. di ko ma imagine na di na ko makaka-drawing :(
Have a beautiful house and ugly car or an ugly house and beautiful car?:	house!! dream come true yan! tsaka oki na sa kin khit lumang kotse, basta di sirain
Be blind or deaf?:	deaf na lang.. marami pa kong gustong makita sa mundo..
Live in Antarctica or Death Valley?:	antartica.. ayoko ng mainit.. mukhang mainit sa death valley.. hehe
In a fire, save a sibling or a stranger?:	sibling.. syempre.. kapatid ko yun eh.
Be spanked or be put on a restriction (on your favorite thing to do)?:	spanked na lang.. maglalaho din yun pasa nun sa katinko at vicks
Eat sushi or liver?:	liver! ayaw ko ng sushi.. hilaw na isda.. eeekkk!
Have 3 eyes or webbed feet?:	3 eyes na lang para anime.. hehe.. (basta ba nakatago sa bangs!)
Meet the president of the U.S. or Billy Graham?:	ah.. khit sino.. si bush na lang..
Find true love or 1 million dollars?:	true love syempre.. para na kong nanalo sa lotto nun.. basta happy!
Always have to say everything on your mind or never speak again?:	say everything.. di ka uunlad kung di ka nagsasalita.. at least nalaman nila himutok ko..
Be gossipped about or never talked about at all?:	tahimik na lang.. ayaw ko ng intriga.. di ako showbiz eh..
Have stars in your eyes or eyes in the back of your head?:	sa eyes na lang.. prang anime ulet.. hehe.. cute pah!
Have x-ray vision or bionic hearing?:	xray vision!! astig yun!!! har har har!
Be able to hear any conversation or take back anything you say?:	hear na lang.. at least alam ko na iniisip ng iba para mas cautious ako..
End hunger or hatred?:	hunger! hirap yata ng feeling ng gutom! tska para di na ko tumaba! hahaha!
Publish your diary or make a movie on your most embarrassing moment?:	diary na lang.. ala nman sila mababasa eh.. hihihi
Get caught singing in the mirror or spying on your crush?:	singing in the mirror.. i think my 'k' naman ako, khit konti.. hihihi
Be a dog named Killer or a cat named Fluffy?:	killer! i love dogs, ya know! kaya dog, khit katakot yung name!
Be stranded on an island alone or with someone you hate?:	with someone na lang.. pra may sisihin ako na iba.. hahahah!
Get even or get over it?:	get over it..get even.. hmmmm.... hirap ah.. get over it na lang pra tapos na...
Always lose or never play?:	always lose.. para matuto din ako at ma experience ko.. lungkot nga lang.. hay..
Be forced to tell your best friend a lie or tell your parents the truth?:	parents the truth.. ala naman ako bestfriend..heheh
Know it all or have it all?:	have it all, cause when you have it all, you'll know it all.. (i think.. ) hehe
Always get first dibs or the last laugh?:	last laugh.. masarap ata tumawa ng malakas.. yun halos umiyak ka na.
Give bad advice or take bad advice?:	take na lng. at least may choice ako na di yun sundin.
Have sand in your shorts or water in your ear?:	sand. mas madali maalis. ala k pa feeling n parang may bumubulong sa yo lagi.
Forget your sunscreen or your sunglasses?:	sunglasses. lagi naman. wag ang sunscreen pra di ako masunog.
Kiss a jellyfish or step on a crab?:	buhay? pag patay yun crab na lang. ^_^
Own a ski lodge or a surf camp?:	ski lodge. sosyal yun ski eh. hihihi
Forget who you were or who everyone else was?:	everyone.. di ko na maiisip yun kc di ko n nga sila maalala. ^_^
Have one wish granted today or three wishes granted in 10 years?:	3 wishes.. mabilis naman ang oras..
Give up your computer or your pet?:	my computer. di ko ma give up bestfriend ko.
Be the sand castle or the wave?:	the wave! may fear ako sa alon kaya dapat maging alon ako para di na ko matakot
Overthrow a dictatorship or lead one?:	overthrow yang mga nangunguha ng tax namin! tpos ang higpit pa.. hay!
Write the worst book in history or record the worst song in history?:	record. di naman masyado napapansin yun composer minsan, mas yung kumanta.. hehe
Get free chocolate for one year or free potatoes forever?:	chocolate syempre.. deal ako jan!
Have half days everyday or no homework forever?:	no homework. kya nga home para sanctuary sa lhat outside
Wear all pink or all purple to school?:	all pink pra girl!
Take a math test or do a lab in science?:	science lab.. yoko ng math.. hihi
Have a mansion in the middle of nowhere or an apartment with 10 friends?:	mansion.. yoko ng 'bigbrother' idea
Be a deep sea diver or an astronaut?:	astronaut!! dreams of all dreams!
Bake cookies in cooking class or do art projects in art class?:	pareho! pde ba? pareho ko gusto yun eh.. sowweeee
Run the mile or give a speech for English?:	takbo na lang.. exercise pa.
Have a pie-eating contest or a wheelbarrow race?:	wheel.. madali ako ma umay eh..
Have a big group of friends or one very close friend?:	one close friend.. basta loyal and true. solve na ko dun
Not be able to talk or hear for one day?:	talk na lang. feeling 'ariel' na lang ko (from little mermaid) lala-lala!
Be nervous but excited or relaxed but bored?:	nervous.. maganda rin yun paminsan-minsan
Wear a school uniform or last year's Halloween costume?:	uniform! astig kaya uniform namin nung college.. yung brown ha?
Spend the day surfing the internet or the ocean?:	ocean.. para matuto na kong lumangoy at maalis na takot ko sa alon
Be an actress/actor in a big movie or the director?:	director! mas gusto ko yung inuutusan ko yun mga artista.. harhar! kidding.. director.. dream ko din yun.
Have an ugly, loyal dog or a prize-winning, snobby cat?:	ugly loyal dog. no need to ask. dog dog dog
Be a professional baseball player or a champion horse breeder?:	baseball.. champion nanay ko sa softball nun highschool eh.. gayahin ko sya
Be saved by Superman or meet Winnie the Pooh?:	superman! gusto ko lumipad.. hihihi.. tska astig yun!
Go to an amusement park or to a family reunion?:	family reunion.. dami handa eh.. tska parlor games.. masaya yun!
Have a kangaroo or koala as your pet?:	koala.. masuntok pa ko nung kangaroo..yoko nga.
Be rich with an unhappy job or make less money with a job you like?:	rich na lang.. pra mag quit ako ng job.. di ko na problema pera.. tpos tyo ko gusto ko business.. hehe
Not be able to use your phone or your e-mail?:	email.. kelangan ko lagi mag text eh.. lam nyo na..
Snowboard in the winter or swim in the summer?:	snowboard.. di ko pa nararanasan yun eh.
Pick your own nose or someone else's?:	akin na lang.. kadiri yun sa iba.. eeekkk!!
Be a tree or live in a tree?:	live in a tree.. maganda rin naman yun may tree house.. presko na at maaliwalas.. tska pag tree, di na ko tao nun..
Write a mystery or a poem?:	mystery.. pra may book 2 and so on.. mas madami books means more popular, more cash, more readers.. practical!
Meet an alien visitor or travel to outer space?:	travel sa outer space syempre.. astig.. just make sure na makabalik ako.. yaw ko ma-stuck dun.
Be forgotten or hatefully remembered?:	hatefully remembered.. at least may nakaalala... hihihi
Last but not least...
Would you rather be doing this quiz or doing something else? =P:	doing this.. ala na ko iba ginagawa eh.. heheh
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To see, or not to see… (Beings of the unseen)

2007-10-30T22:10:00.001+08:00

"Is it true?" is always the first question we ask. "Have you seen one?" then this follows.

There are many stories about them. Some passed through generations and some are newly created. Out of illusion. Others, out of reality.

Actually, it is not about the realness of this spirit we are curious about. It is about being one. What do they feel, what they are up to, how did they become one, what will happen next? It is all about the unknown we are facing, the "after life in the spirit world" as we call it.

According to people, the experience of seeing "something" brings a very strong sensation. Hairs rise like what those in cartoons and you just go blank afterwards.

Humans, by nature, fear the unknown because they are afraid of what they might discover. But they are so eager to learn because they are born curious. Still, their instinct of survival overcomes the fear. Some of us shut their eyes whenever we feel we are in the situation of finally seeing a ghost but still peek to see how they look like.

What would you do when suddenly a headless man passes in front of you while you’re watching TV? Will you scream, run, freeze or yell at him to go away because he’s getting in your view? Hah, whatever it is you would do, you’ll never know until you are in that situation. It will depend whether you have already experienced one.

Regardless of others experiences, would you really want to see one? For what reason? To tell others you had experienced it? Or to know what they are up to?

I think the latter must be the reason. After all, nothing exists for nothing. And learning something from them is not a bad purpose too. I’m thinking of asking about their past. What really did occur then and what are the consequences that resulted from those events. With that, I might able to do something in the future. Maybe not that of a big change, but still and hopefully, I can do at least a little change.

One more thing, like one of my questions before, I want to find out why they are here and for some reason, why does God created them in the first place. I know that there’s a fact that all of us here in the world are "ghosts" in our own ways because according to many, we all have souls. The only thing we are different from them is that we have this physical body. We are ghosts because we are still searching for answers for our tons of questions. (Gee, like what ghost stories usually narrate). Why, why, why. Maybe the answers will all depend on what they did. For all our actions will bring about a certain result. A circumstance created by the choices we made. Maybe they also serve as "reminders" to all of us who are still living, that it is all life’s consequences: that they are the naked examples of our conscience.

But no matter what is the justification of their existence, whether they are real or not, they are not here to harm us. We may get afraid of them for they are kind of "different", but one thing I am certain. That the real ghosts who can really hurt us are the ones we created ourselves.

Ghost, n. the soul of a dead person, a disembodied spirit imagined as wandering among or haunting living persons. Now its up to you to believe or not.

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happy halloween to all... ^_^

halowin komiks

2007-10-27T22:39:00.000+08:00

story by Normandy dela Paz
art by Rui and Lengski
A writer asked us to create a comic for the Holloween Supplement which was supposed to be published in a newspaper way back 2004. Unfortunately, there was no space spared for this piece, so this was not released and got stuck inside my office pc. Anyway, I recently browsed my drive d and saw this one.. so i decided to post it here, at least for it to be read 'finally' by public. ^_^geez.. holloween is coming.. maybe this comic really called out to me to be released by then...

Nala Episode 06

2007-10-26T16:17:00.000+08:00

-=a doggie tribute=-

2007-10-24T19:35:00.000+08:00

How Could You?
By Jim Willis, 2001

When I was a puppy, I entertained you with my antics and made you laugh. You called me your child, and despite a number of chewed shoes and a couple of murdered throw pillows, I became your best friend.
Whenever I was "bad," you'd shake your finger at meand ask "How could you?"-- but then you'd relent and roll me over for a bellyrub. My housebreaking took a little longer than expected, because you were terribly busy but we worked on that together.
I remember those nights of nuzzling you in bed and listening to your confidences and secret dreams and I believed that life could not be any more perfect. We went for long walks and runs in the park, car rides, stops for ice cream (I only got the cone because "ice cream is bad for dogs" you said), and I took long naps in the sun waiting for you to come home at the end of the day.
Gradually, you began spending more time at work and on your career, and more time searching for a human mate. I waited for you patiently, comforted you through heartbreaks and disappointments, never chided you about bad decisions, and romped with glee at your homecomings, and when you fell in love.
She, now your wife, is not a "dog person" -- still I welcomed her into our home, tried to show her affection, and obeyed her. I was happy because you were happy.
Then the human babies came along and I shared your excitement. I was fascinated by their pinkness, how they smelled, and I wanted to mother them, too. Only she and you worried that I might hurt them, and I spent most of my time banished to another room, or to a dog crate. Oh, how I wanted to love them, but I became a "prisoner of love."
As they began to grow, I became their friend. They clung to my fur and pulled themselves up on wobbly legs, poked fingers in my eyes, investigated my ears, and gave me kisses on my nose. I loved everything about them and their touch -- because your touch was now so infrequent -- and I would've defended them with my life if need be. I would sneak into their beds and listen to their worries and secret dreams, and together we waited for the sound of your car in the driveway.
There had been a time, when others asked you if you had a dog, that you produced a photo of me from your wallet and told them stories about me. These past few years, you just answered "yes" and changed the subject. I had gone from being "your dog" to "just a dog," and you resented every expenditure on my behalf.
Now, you have a new career opportunity in another city, and you and they will be moving to an apartmentthat does not allow pets. You've made the right decision for your "family," but there was a time when I was your only family. I was excited about the carride until we arrived at the animal shelter. It smelled of dogs and cats, of fear, of hopelessness.
You filled out the paperwork and said "I know you will find a good home for her." They shrugged and gave you a pained look. They understand the realities facing a middle-aged dog, even one with "papers." You had to pry your son's fingers loose from my collar as he screamed, "No, Daddy! Please don't let them take my dog!" And I worried for him, and what lessons you had just taught him about friendship and loyalty, about love and responsibility, and about respect for all life. You gave me a good-bye pat on the head, avoided my eyes, and politely refused to take my collar and leash with you. You had a deadline to meet and now I have one, too.
After you left, the two nice ladies said you probably knew about your upcoming move months ago and made no attempt to find me another good home. They shook their heads and asked "How could you?" They are as attentive to us here in the shelter as their busy schedules allow.
They feed us, of course, but I lost my appetite days ago. At first, whenever anyone passed my pen, I rushed to the front, hoping it was you, that you had changed your mind -- that this was all a bad dream... or I hoped it would at least be someone who cared, anyone who might save me. When I realized I could not compete with the frolicking for attention of happy puppies, oblivious to their own fate, I retreated to a far corner and waited.
I heard her footsteps as she came for me at the end ofthe day, and I padded along the aisle after her to a separate room. A blissfully quiet room. She placed me on the table and rubbed my ears, and told me not to worry. My heart pounded in anticipation of what was to come, but there was also a sense of relief. The prisoner of love had run out of days.
As is my nature, I was more concerned about her. The burden which she bears weighs heavily on her, and Iknow that, the same way I knew your every mood. She gently placed a tourniquet around my fore leg as a tear ran down her cheek. I licked her hand in the same wayI used to comfort you so many years ago. She expertly slid the hypodermic needle into my vein. As I felt the sting and the cool liquid coursing through my body, I lay down sleepily, looked into her kind eyes and murmured "How could you?"
Perhaps because she understood my dogspeak, she said"I'm so sorry." She hugged me, and hurriedly explained it was her job to make sure I went to a better place,where I wouldn't be ignored or abused or abandoned, or have to fend for myself -- a place of love and light so very different from this earthly place.
And with my last bit of energy, I tried to convey to her with a thump of my tail that my "How could you?" was not directed at her. It was directed at you, My Beloved Master, I was thinking of you. I will think of you and wait for you forever. May everyone in your life continue to show you so much loyalty... like how I did to you...Till then.

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this really made me cry everytime i read it... (hikbi.. hikbi...) made me love all my doggies more...

(the illustrations above are all original creations/characters and the illustration dog's heart was published in Philippine Daily Inquirer's Chinese New Year Supplements)

buletin bord

2007-10-22T17:45:00.000+08:00

as of 10.22.07

nala episode 04

nala episode 05

i want this! (digital SLR)

2007-10-22T17:28:00.000+08:00

I'm really hoping for the appliance fair to be held soon cause I'm really really excited to have a digital SLR.

Of course, I still cherish my EOS 80 and will be forever grateful for all of our 'experiences' together.. (hey, it gave me 1.5 thesis grade and a whopping 1 for a special project during college ^_^ ) but to be able to cope up with the 'trend' here in the office, I must have a digital SLR.

Hmmm... catching everyday scenes, amazing views during my travels, simply freezing the memories of time that I happened to pass through... What more could I ask for? I love photography. If I'll be given a chance to choose a career, I will definitely run and breath this path! (Of course, together with 'nala' and 'doodles' as my inspiration tools..) ^_^

Problem is... this nikon d3 is worth $5000!!! (unfortunately, I don't have that much.. heheh) but I'm planning to buy canon 400d instead.

And when the world already knows that there's a 'GREAT' (naks!) photographer named 'lengski' that's just hiding and existing somewhere behind nala's tail, I'll definitely be able to buy the d3 without even noticing that my pocket was busted... (am i making sense?? oh well.. pagbigyan nyo na... I'm just too happy to think of the sentence construction right now.. heheh)

Nala Episode 05

2007-10-22T14:16:00.000+08:00

Nala Episode 04

2007-10-20T15:40:00.000+08:00

Nala Episode 03

2007-10-15T13:48:00.000+08:00

Nala Episode 02

2007-10-09T17:27:00.000+08:00

Nala Episode 01

2007-10-04T15:11:00.000+08:00

My first comic strip - Nala Episode 01

Thinner is better?

2007-06-19T14:56:00.000+08:00

Whenever I go to the mall, I can't help but stare on the widescreen LCD tvs that are on display in appliance stores. I'm particularly interested with the Bravia units offered by Sony. Every time I see those big, super fine, high definition, LCD units, I suddenly see myself daydreaming of what It's like to have it at home and just consume my day off watching my favorite shows and anime dvds.

Well, the dilemma is, they are pretty expensive. I still can't afford it at the moment but I still see myself purchasing a 50inch model in the near future, filling up my own satisfaction.

Or is it worth it?

Here are some of my worries. Will cable companies provide a High Definition feeds by the time I purchase the unit? Where will I put it? (Cause I may not have a bigger space and still be living in a 20 square meter studio unit.) Or worse, what if by then, a better model will be introduced right after I bought the Bravia?

A possibility, especially that thing about a new product.

Why is it so? Because Sony has promised to introduce OLED TV this year (though Samsung doubted it).

What is OLED TV?

Here are some information from the different sites I visited through Google.

Basically means as "Organic Light Emitting Diode TV".

OLEDs are a flat display technology, made by placing a series of organic thin films between two conductors. When electrical current is applied, a bright light is emitted.

Because OLEDs produce (emit) light they do not require a backlight. This means that OLEDs can be made very thin and very power efficient when compared to LCD (Which do require a white backlight), and also it might be possible to create efficient white lighting from OLEDs.

So what does it means?

OLED's advantages are having a more "exciting displays" (ultra-thin, flexible even transparent displays), low power consumption (which make it more environmental friendly), greater brightness, better durability and lighter weight.

Very promising eh? Imagine an acetate functioning as a screen. It's like one step to the matrix technology. Today, we can find small organic displays in many types of devices like cell phones, A/V players, car audio systems, digital cameras and PDAs. Currently, building a large sized OLED display is hard and it will take some time before companies are able to do it economically. Though Sony has already launched their prototypes of larger OLED screens in Japan and claimed to make an 11inch unit available in the market by the end of 2007, Samsung contradict it and stated that it does not believed that Sony will be able to deliver its promise by then.

But whether it will be available or not, I can say that it is still with the consumer's satisfaction that will weigh the pith of this invention. A consumer like me whose only desire is to make the most of the purchase I spent with the product.

A man’s quest for fatherhood

2007-06-18T14:47:00.000+08:00

I know he will be surprised to read this. He has often asked me if he was a good father. And every time, I pause and become uncertain of the answer. Not that I’m a woman, single and do not have children yet.

He is a father of two. His daughter turned six last week, while his son will turn five next month. He got married at 24, and was separated from his wife four years later. The marriage was far from perfect, and their differences made them decide to seek separate fates. After the separation, he seldom saw his children. In fact, the last time he was able to visit his children was almost two years ago.

It’s painful for a father not to see his children, send them to school, hear their voices, play with them and tuck them in bed. Each day that passes is filled with emptiness with no end.

He then realized that he should search inwards if he ever hoped to be reunited with his kids again. Money was one of the main reasons for the separation, and so he found a job. He worked hard, grabbed every opportunity that came his way. Failure shadowed him constantly, but he would not stop.

At work, he used his painful experiences as motivation. For him, the hardest part of life had already happened. It was time to live a new life.

Before long, he became a team leader at the workplace. He earned the trust and confidence of his superiors, and the respect of his peers. His colleagues are aware of his painful past, and they are only too happy for what this man has become.

He has managed to turn his life around almost completely. Yet, there is still that one important part missing to make the circle complete: His children. Soon, he will reveal himself to them, show them what he has become, and for whom he has done all these changes for. Soon, he vows, he will finally make them feel the love and care he has kept in his heart all these years.

So now, whenever he asks me if he was a good father, all I can answer is for him to look at himself. I believe fatherhood is not just the time a father spends with his children, or the things he is able to give them. It’s also about what a man has become to be a father to his children.

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This article was published in Philippine Daily Inquirer for Father's Day Supplement on June 17, 2007

what i think about yuri

2007-06-15T13:35:00.001+08:00

Yuri is very friendly, warm, funny at times and very loving. He's also very cute and cuddly. I like his big round eyes, his cute little pink tongue and his little nose that always sniffs. I like every inch of him. Not just because he's my dog. Not just because he's my companion. It's because he is my bestfriend.

But I am not Yuri's only bestfriend. Hope its only in my thoughts that Yuri might not be that loyal to me because there are some things that I can't give him that other people can. I just hope I'm wrong about this.

I'd been around dogs for as long as I can remember. Maybe I'm just three of four years old when I first had my puppy to take care of. Ever since, I never lived without a dog beside me. So I can say that I know how to properly raise them based on all the experiences I had.

But why do I doubt myself right now regarding caring for Yuri?

Because this is the first time that I'm sharing my bestfriend with someone else. And honestly, I'm not that at ease with the situation. For oftentimes, there are contradictions between how I take care Yuri with how others treat him. Right now, I can already see the results in Yuri's behavior.

Before, Yuri can still differentiate a stranger from those who are not. Though Yuri is sociable by nature, he used to have this instinct to be careful. But now, he will wag his tail to anyone he met and just give his trust right away. This makes me really worried especially when I heard about the "dognapping" incidents that taken place to almost everywhere. Where toy dogs like Yuri are often the target for abduction. An officemate too once said that Yuri is "dognapabble" cause he is really kind, which made me a lot worried for his safety.

Second is, Yuri used to love food so much. The sound of ripping plastics are already delicious to him. He can consume a big bag of "Holistic Recipe" dog food in less than a month. Even found vitamins a yummy dessert. But now, he will just eat what he wants. And what he wanted is just "canned dog food". For me to compare it with "Holistic", it's less nutritious and even more expensive. Plus, the fact that it is "canned" which makes it more unhealthy for him. We still have to pretend that we're eating his food or he will not taste it at all.

I noticed too that Yuri would just do whatever he wanted to do. Yes, he's playful, very active and fun. But it’s different from being a "disciplined active dog". Now, he never listens. Everything is play for him. Which, in reality, makes him vulnerable to the outside world. Made him not a survivor and not be able to fully develop his instincts to differentiate dangerous things from the one he can actually play.

Yuri is a good dog. Actually, a very very good dog. One of the best bestfriends I've ever had. But it doesn't mean that he can learn things by himself. To know what is good and what is bad for him. Actually, he is very lucky to have so many people that loves him. And I really really appreciate it and I'm also very thankful. But it is still our responsibility to mold him the right way and not for the way where we can see immediate result or answers to his immediate needs. We need to prepare him too for his long journey and old age.

We want Yuri to be with us for as long as we want. Life is not just a happy time. Same with a dog's life. Please help me make him realize what life is about.

Together, let's make him an independent, strong and a "survivor Yuri". With all his already qualities, Yuri will surely be one of the greatest bestfriend ever, if not the greatest dog in the world.

For when that happened, I can say that he lived his doggy life as how it should be. And we're lucky enough to have him spend it with us.

Revenge

2007-06-13T15:46:00.000+08:00

Revenge? Good or bad? Most of the people will say its bad. I think even Mr. Webster will say it is. But for me, I think it depends. Depending on the reason why you want to have it.

Oftentimes, we felt to resort to revenge because we can’t achieve justice. Its not simply to feel good that the person involve will have his lesson for the harm that he had caused. I believe that revenge will be his eye opener. Yes, it will be a lesson learned. Not to cause pain. For a person to realize the consequence of his actions.

Will I practice revenge? I think so. But neither for my own satisfaction nor making myself feels at peace or for that person to suffer. I’ll dedicate revenge for all the people who have gone through the distress caused by this unfortunate "craziness". So that the person behind this torment will realized that there is this one person who is not afraid for his violated rights to finally be heard and be stated.

It’s just simple justice.

what i do everyday

2007-06-04T16:26:00.000+08:00

movies.
i call myself as the "movie editor". my officemates know why.

coffee.
i drink it whenever i feel sleepy, hungry and bored. (basically when i have nothing to do...)

forums.
when i need someone not serious to talk to.

manga.
when i want to laugh and feed my imagination.

illustration.
whenever im in the mood. it's hard for me to draw something when i have no inspiration.

photography.
oh, how i hope i can do this everyday. so, i just plan ahead on shooting my subjects.

cook.
to manage my budget and escape from the sin of fastfoods eating.

other work.
yep, doing someone's work. (this one i really hate)

chatting.
to keep my communication with my very important one.

net surfing.
just to feel away from my cubicle.

blogging.
when i need to release my frustrations, excitement or anything else.

sleeping.
just to escape from everything.

The hardest first step

2007-06-02T21:53:00.001+08:00

Planning. I'd been really interested in planning. Like when I was still in college and was assigned to be the project leader of conceptualizing a marketing campaign for a product that caters with the senior market. And we got a very good grade after the presentation for that AdPrac group project. That time, I felt really proud. Once again, I have proven not only to my professor and classmates but especially to myself that I can be an effective leader.

And that was a few years back.

Now, I'm planning again. Not for a marketing campaign, not for an AdPrac project, not even for brand collaterals. Right now, I am planning for myself. Yes, you read it right. Cause unlike before, currently, I'm not sure where’s my career path is really going to.

To give you an idea, I have a stable job. Earning compensation that is more than enough to sustain the rent, other monthly bills, fine dining, weekend movies and a big investment. I am currently employed in one of the top companies here. If you're going to look at it, there's nothing I could really ask for more. That is, if you are going to just look on the practical side.

But why am I still not that at ease with my current situation?

Good question.

Here's the reason why. Because I have forgotten that I am a planner. To be honest, that planner has always been inside of me. That drive to create campaigns, that eagerness to make effective catch lines, those brainstormings and brilliant ideas, that person who was once a leader. It never leaves me. It just happened that I don't have opportunities right now. Enough ways to show this side of me. Enough chance to prove my worth.

Or do I just limit myself? Maybe... But why?

Thinking about it, I realized that if that chance will not be given to me, I think I better find it myself. If those opportunities are really difficult for me to have, I will make my own opportunity. And this search should start right now.

This will be my gameplan. For my goals. For my life. A search for my forgotten self.

This blog will start the blueprint of my plans. The planner will be revived. Goals will be realized soon.

And it will all begin with the hardest first step.

It is, collecting my old self.

pasahero sa dyipni

2007-06-01T19:00:00.000+08:00

For my second entry, I found this "bloggie" when i dig my "kalat sa desktop". I wrote this one a few years back.

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August 15, 2003

As usual, tuwing tanghali, nakasakay na naman ako ng jeep para pumasok sa trabaho. Lagi akong nagbibigay ng 2-hour allowance kasi apat na byahe ako bago makrating dun. Sa may Pritil, pinalad na naman akong makasakay dun sa mga jeep na di pumipila. Kasi inaabot ako ng siyam-siyam pag dun sa may tapat ng Puregold ako sumakay. Napansin ko sa may jeep na may dalawang babae na sobra lakas magkwentuhan. Nagkataon na sa tapat pa nila ako umupo, yung malapit sa may dulong babaan. Naintriga ako sa pinaguusapan nila kaya tahimik ko silang pinakinggan.

"Alam mo, kahit anong gawin mo, kasalanan pa rin yon. Madulas ka na sa kung madulas pero sigurado na mainit ka na rin sa pulis" sabi nun isang mas nakatatandang babae na ipagpalagay na nating Loring ang pangalan. "Pero maliit lang naman yun ginawa ko" pagtatangol nun kasama niya na tinawag ko na lang sa pangalang Minda.

Medyo nagsimulang lumakas yung usapan nila kaya yung ibang pasahero na kasakay namin e napatingin na rin. Kaya lang nun pinagmasdan ko ulit sina Loring at Minda, wala silang pakialam at patuloy na nag-usap.

May kinalalaman sa droga yung pinaguusapan nila. Di malinaw sa akin pro alam kong medyo kumplikado yung sitwasyon. Pero sa paraaan ng kanilang pag-uusap, parang ang mga bagay na ito ay pangkaraniwan na lang sa kanila at talagang inaasahang mangyari. Ganun daw talaga. Madaling pagkakitaan ang bawal lalo na kung hirap ka sa buhay. Madaling alternatibo sa pagkita ang mga bagay na di naayon sa batas. Ano ba naman daw ang kaso sa paggawa nun e marami naman daw ganun na tao. Di daw sila nag-iisa at sumasabay daw lang sila sa agos. Para bang nakikiuso.

"Malulusutan din ang lahat. Di ka na ba nasanay?" dagdag ni Aling Loring. "May mga bagay na nagagawa na sa panahon ngayon kahit na isipin mo na di ito nararapat." Ang tangi na lang daw nila magagawa ay wag mapatalo at makipagsabayan sa nagagawa ng iba upang di mag mukhang lalong kawawa.

Sa aking pakikinig, nalaman ko na hindi pala naniniwala si Aling Loring sa balita, lalo na sa mga dyaryo. Sabi nya, nababayaran daw ang mga reporter para di lumabas yun mga anomalya ng isang kilalang tao. Sinabi nya yun matapos nyang pagtawanan si Aling Minda nun sabuhin nyang bilib siya kay GMA. Napanood daw kasi ni Aling Minda sa TV na mabait daw si GMA kya iboboto nya ito kung tumakbo man ulit. Pingatawanan ni Aling Loring na manloloko lang ang media sa pamamgitan ng pagbibigay ng mga halimbawa.

Kilala daw niya yung isang kilalang druglord na isinapelikula na ang buhay. Totoo nga daw drug lord yon at totoong mayaman at maimpluwensya. Pero nun pinanood na niya yun pelikula, nagmukha pa daw itong isang hero sa kabila ng malaking pagkakasala at paglabag sa batas. "Hindi ba’t isang tuwirang pagsisinungaling yon?" ang malakas pa niyang pagkakasabi.

May isa pa daw. Yung isang congressman na dati e namimili ng boto. Bawat sobre na binigay nya kung saan nakasulat yung pangalan nito ay may kalakip na limangdaang piso. Syempre nga naman daw, sa isang taong gutom, tatanggapin yon. Limangdaan, wala kang mapupulot sa kalye na ganun kahit maghapon kang yumuko sa bawat kalyeng dadaanan mo sa buong Maynila.

Mas maniwala pa daw siya dun sa mga nagra-rally na pinangakuan nang matitirhan ng isang kandidato at binawi rin nung ito na ang umupo sa pwesto. Isa daw kasi siya dun sa libo-libonng naloko nung sinungaling na yon.

Bilib na bilib namang nakikinig sa sinasabi niya si Aling Minda. Nag advise pa nga ito sa kanya na ang tanging balita na pinapanood nya ay yun MGB. Tska yun daw kay Arnold… di pa nga siya sigurado kung tama yung pangalan na sinabi nya e. Basta yun daw yung palabas kung saan may mga taong kumakain ng alupihan.

Kaya daw nyang gawin yon. Basta kahit na anong pagkakakitaan. Yun naman daw ang dahilan kung bakit siya nabubuhay, ang kumita at magkaroon ng kahit konti na mapapakain sa sarili nya. Kaya nga daw di siya nagpamilya. Dahil ayaw nyang maranasan nila ang hirap na nararanasan nya ngayon.

Bigla na silang pumara nun asa may Abad Santos na sila. Napagsabihan pa niya si Aling Minda na daldal ito ng daldal kaya muntik na silang lumampas. Kaya iyon, nagmamdaling binitbit yung baso nilang plastik na may lamang yelo at pilit na sinimot yung konting tubig na natunaw mula don. Nauhaw siguro.

Sa pagbyahe ko nun tanghaling yun, may mga bagay akong natutunan. Ngayon ko napatunayan na lahat talaga tayo ay konektado sa isat’ isa at sa bawat bagay na ginagawa natin ay may kaakibat na epekto sa lahat, kahit dun sa di mo pinapansin at nakakasabay mo lang sa dyip. Yun mga taong pareho mo ang nararamdaman sa tuwing natratrapik ka at binubugahan ng usok ng mga dyip na nauunang umarangkada. Salamat dun sa dalawang naunang pumara na sayang nga lang at di ko na nakilala.

Gone Fishing

2007-06-01T18:33:00.000+08:00

As my first blog entry, I decided to post this first article of mine. Yep, im proud of it. heheh...

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You need not spend thousands of pesos just to have fun this summer. Just prepare your own kawil (fishing rod) and ride a fisherman’s boat. The rest will be an exciting escape and an eye-opener, guaranteed.

Everything started with that ride on the jeep—not inside but on top of it beside townsfolk with their bayong, sack of rice, or chicken in hand. You forget to mind the heat of the noontime sun. You even forget that it’s been an hour since the ride started from Poblacion, Nasugbu, to Calayo (one of the 42 barangays that make up Nasugbu town in Batangas).

There is only one jeepney making that single trip from Calayo early in the morning to Poblacion in Nasugbu. Miss this one, and your next trip will literally arrive the next day.

The jeepney arrives in Poblacion just before noontime. The passengers then buy their necessities at the Nasugbu Public Market. By 12, the passengers go back to the jeepney and start the ride back to Calayo. This time, the jeepney carried a few more passengers than when it left Calayo this morning.

As the jeep rumbled along the rough road, we constantly checked if our seats were as secure as our luggage. Despite a rough ride, the view from atop the jeepney had given us a great view of the barrios and natural wonders along the way. Upon arrival at Calayo (literally translated as "very far"), we looked forward to our next adventure: lunch "extraordinaire" of adobo and sardinas at Mang Ambrosio Sevilla’s home. Mang Busyo, fisherman and a long-time resident of Calayo, would be our tour guide, bodyguard and barkada for that day.

Perfect spot
After lunch, we rode on Mang Busyo’s banca and headed for that perfect fishing spot on a shoreline inaccessible by land. There, we built a tent made of tree branches and sack blankets, while some already cast their line into the water. Mang Busyo started a fire and prepared taktakin, steaming hot shellfish soup, while showing us how and where to fish. He said patience is required to catch fish, and one shouldn’t expect what kind of fish to catch, if any would be caught at all. What’s important is the effort.

We started by placing our bait on the kawil’s hook, then cast it to the water. He reminded us to keep the kawil as steady as possible so as not to startle the fish. In our first attempt at fishing, we were "lucky" enough to catch botete, a non-edible blow fish, after 20 minutes of patience and "expecting nothing".

By sunset, though, we had caught a number of fishes good enough for our supper. And we capped our day with an enjoyable swim in the cool, kind waters of the South China Sea. Dinner was served, featuring all our good catch grilled to perfection.

As the bonfire smoldered into the night, we looked forward to the next day’s round of fishing, and dreamed of another big catch in the morning. Another big catch before calling it a day and riding again on Mang Busyo’s boat headed for home this time.

Back on top of that lone jeepney bobbing up and down on dirt roads on our way back from Calayo to Poblacion, a realization likewise bobbed up and down in my mind. Life is like fishing. It takes patience to have a good catch. Things cannot be rushed, and we should wait for the right time to pull out that one string of opportunity that crosses our path, in a journey of life that’s as vast as the ocean.

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This article was published on Philippine Daily Inquirer's Summer Supplement Issue